Talk:Bade/@comment-26014718-20121020014055

Guys, don't stress out because Beck is going out with someone other then Jade. I think it's a good step for their relationship.

Breaking up in TWC was a good move,don't get me wrong I do loooove Bade, but they just didn't seem happy together as they were in Season 1. They fought waay too much, Beck showed no remorse for Jade's feelings, and Jade was just too jealous, overprotective and clingy. Breaking up is a big booster for development not only in their relationship, but in themselves. Jade needs to start having more trust, and stop over-thinking things in the worse possible way... which she has in Opposite Date; while Beck needs to realize why Jade acts the way she does, he needs to discover she's just a scared insecure girl who is scared of losing him especially to Tori. I think Beck needs to understand that Jade is the one for him, no matter what. I'm no expert on relationships, but I do know things like this happen for a reason.

So yes, I admit Beck dating someone else is upsetting... but sometimes you need to just.. date other people, experience a range of relationships in order to realize who you truly love; even if it has been a long time since the break up. After all they are teenagers, and as teenagers you need to just grow up and figure out who you are as a person as well as finding who those special people are in your life. And experimenting in different relationships is the way to grow up and mature - not finding what relationships were a mistake, no relationship is a mistake, it just ends badly on occasions but you learn and grow from it. If all relationships were perfect then no one would be able to mature, and develop themselves as a person.

So just stay calm, and wait what happens:).