Talk:Tori Fixes Beck and Jade/@comment-4958474-20120622163644/@comment-3536064-20120623132902

There is never just one person to blame for a breakup. Both of them made mistakes, be it Jade's jealousy, combative ways and refusal to get to the root of the problem (probably afraid or insecure) or Beck's way of treating Jade's feelings (anger, jealousy, insecurity) like they aren't a big deal, making her jealous on purpose and complaining about her to his friends (when it's not their business). Jade shouldn't have stalked Beck's Slap page or beat up his hairdresser, but he shouldn't have posted about hanging out with a bunch of bikini-clad girls (just to make her jealous, as he was only kidding) or said he repected war veterans because he was dating Jade, so he knew what they were going through. Neither one of them really respected or honored each other fully. The breakup is a time for them to learn about and improve upon their individual selves; Jade was so dependent on Beck for compainionship and self-assurance and he needed her to be the one to express whet everyone was thinking/feeling but were all too nice to say, because let's be honest, Beck lets being nice get in the way of honesty. They both need to work out their issues apart until they can address them together.